Mastering the Art of Conversation This Holiday Season and Beyond

“Commonalities often open the door for further conversation and, once that door is open, you can start a dialogue that allows the other person to elaborate and not give close-ended answers.”

— Tamekis Williams, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

On Their Likes

  • What was your favorite age growing up?

  • Where’s the next place on your travel bucket list and why?

  • What's one thing that can instantly make your day better?

  • What’s your favorite way to spend a day off?

  • Are you into podcasts or do you only listen to music?

  • What's the best gift you've ever received, and why?

“Asking questions about close relationships can lead to stories, and sharing stories leads to connection and an experience of being seen by one another.” 

— Rebecca Hendrix, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

On Family

  • What was it like growing up as the youngest/oldest/middle/only child?

  • What's your favorite way to spend time with your family?

  • How did your parents (and/or grandparents) meet?

  • Which family member makes the best food?

  • What's the most important holiday you spend with your family and why?


Adapted from: Women’s Health Magazine, “260 (Not Boring) Questions To Ask To Get To Know Someone Better” written by Sabrina Talbert, Safire R. Sostre, and Lindsay Geller

 

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